I'm so sad Thanksgiving is over. I don't really know what to do with myself right now. I REALLY want to drink some wine. I know it sounds terrible but I'm missing my family and dreading work tomorrow.
I get emails from the Shrink Yourself website. They help people to stop emotional eating. I have not tried their paid program. It doesn't actually cost that much but I just don't feel like paying the money. Part of me really feels like I should be able to overcome emotional eating on my own. I guess admitting I have a problem is the first step? I feel like my emotional eating has been under control much better lately...until today really. And I'm sure this will pass. It's just all of a sudden so quiet at my apartment and I feel like my life is just up in the air right now. There's good food around and I just feel like having some food.
This was the email I got:
GRATITUDE
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 25, 2008 | POSTED BY MICHELLE
I read a quote that said, “If I could only have one prayer it would be thank-you.” The importance of gratitude shouldn’t be underestimated. Many people adopt a gratitude practice. And what better time of year than Thanksgiving to do so.
For Emotional Eaters, Thanksgiving kicks off the holiday season and can create a lot of anxiety. How will you face the holidays without overeating? How will you be strong in the face of all the food that surrounds you? How will you face the stress of family gatherings without the comfort of food? How will you face the pressure of the holidays in a failing economy without rewarding the people you love with pies and cookies since you might not be able to give them as many gifts? So many questions. So many concerns. But you can counterbalance the strain by shifting your focus.
People have told me that they came to view their pattern of overeating as a blessing instead of a curse. They actually said thank-you for their feelings of powerlessness over food. Why? Because the discomfort of overeating (the added weight, the guilt and frustration) led them on a path to Shrink Yourself, a path where they had to face themselves, their feelings and their real needs. On this journey they found it wasn’t just their weight that was suffering, it was their lives, their fulfillment and their relationships. As they improved these parts of their lives, they needed food less and less. But if it weren’t for food, they would never have gotten uncomfortable enough to go looking for a better way. Can you find some reason to say thank-you for the struggles you’ve had with food?
Challenge yourself this holiday season to cultivate a gratitude practice. It can be simple. You can just say three things each night that you’re grateful for. You can say it to yourself. Your spouse. Or you can write it in a journal. Kids love to participate in this. You can do it at the dinner table or before bedtime. In a time when it’s easy to see what we don’t have, it’s great to remember the things that we do. What can you be thankful for? Love? A home? Healthy children? Enough food? Friends? Laughter? Saying thank-you for both the struggles and the successes can give us hope.
I am grateful for all of you and for the hope you give me everyday with your courage, your tenacity and your compassion for one another. I wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving.
I think it's a very interesting way to look at emotional eating. Who would have thought to be a thankful spin on it? Definitely not me. But this is the time to really think about what we're thankful for and since I'm feeling a little bla tonight I thought this might be exactly what I need.
I am thankful for so many things--
- My health
- My family
- My great friends that I miss so much
- My foster cats
- My apartment
- My car that is paid off
- Opportunities - even if they create sadness and confusion
- Being employed for almost an entire year
- Unemployment
- Books
- My tivo
- My computer
I'll be back tomorrow to go over my week and my eating. It's back to work for two weeks. I'm still not sure if I'm going to Mexico. I think I'll be ok which ever way it goes. But I'll be working at my old job for this week at least. Hurray for a paycheck!








